Derecho, Tornadoes & NIPSCO . . .Oh My!

Wanted to document this event for posterity’s sake. This is what I experienced, on the outside edge looking in to the areas that had it far worse.

It’s been over 3 weeks now since Northwest Indiana was hit with a major weather event. Lately the summer storms have brought strong winds, and heavy rain. But nothing prepared us for what hit on August 11th.

For me it was a typical day, my daughter was getting ready to go to work to start her shift at 10:30. By 10 am, it was dark and storming, the winds were bad, but honestly, I had seen worse. We had the weather on the TV, and prepared to go to the basement if needed. By 10:15 am, our power went out, which was a bit of a surprise. There was no thunderclap, no vibrant lightening show, just the wind whipping the rain sideways against the windows. The lights were on, and then they weren’t.

Liv’s manager called her and told her to come in later, since the whole Walmart store was being evacuated to the back and taking shelter. We could hear the storm sirens from the areas around us, eventually we heard the one from our town. But the radar tracked the storm’s path passing just south of us, so we never made it to the basement ourselves. The storm came and went, and left us in the dark.

A few hours later, the reports were coming in with devasting photos from the towns all around us. Ben and Josh had been in the city when the storm hit, and on their way home, trying to find somewhere to eat, they drove through Munster and couldn’t believe the destruction along one of the main roads. Ben pulled out his camera and took video and photos.

On Facebook, people were posting about power outages, traffic lights being out, and gas stations without power. Later in the day, were reports of people waiting in long lines 70 cars deep to get gas from the few stations that still had power.

Then came the number that measured the scale of it: 330,000 people without power. Our county alone had 95% of residents in the dark. NIPSCO, our power company, called it the largest power outage in company history, which made it difficult for them to provide solid timelines of when the power would return.

Then the cause: a derecho, with straight line wind gusts reaching 80 to 100 mph in some areas. Never heard of such a thing, and as if that wasn’t bad enough, it decided to bring along with it about 6 tornadoes.

By the late afternoon, I needed to start thinking about saving the food in our fridge and extra freezer. I sent Ben to get several bags of ice for our large cooler, thinking surely the power would be on the next day, maybe the following. Especially since only a small portion of our town was without power. We weren’t dealing with downed trees on power lines. My two sons live 2 blocks over, they had power, my sister on the other side of town, had power.

Each day, I checked the NIPSCO power outage map. Only about 800 customers were affected in our town of 4,600 people. We were able to charge our devices at my son’s apartment which saved us! Also, our streetlights stayed on as well. Which helped shine light into our home during the night, so it wasn’t completely pitch dark, which I am so grateful for, that would have freaked me out a bit.  I had battery operated lights and motion sensing lights, which usually light our cabinets and pantry. I put those in the kitchen and bathroom. By the late evening of day 2, Josh brought me a portable power station big enough to run my laptop and wifi, which I named Sparky, and it came in clutch, allowing me to keep working through it all.

Late Friday night a little after 11 pm, Josh was here talking with me and Liv in the living room, when the TV suddenly flickered on and off. Me and Liv immediately looked at each other, she jumped up and ran to turn the light on. Then proceeded to turn ALL the lights on. Hallelujah! The first thing I turned on was the AC! Four and a half days without power, I never had to deal with anything like that in my lifetime. But I’m grateful that was the extent of what we endured; God had been looking out for me and gave us a breeze those four days, so the heat never got unbearable.  So many people had to deal with so much more, including my brother and his family. He had some damage to their home along with losing power, but he had generators to help them get through.

Unfortunately, the ice in the cooler was a futile effort, we ended up throwing everything out. I only purchased a few groceries over the weekend, didn’t want to restock just yet, as the towns surrounding us still had significant outages.

Then Monday night, a transformer exploded and caught fire about five miles away in the next town. Our power was still on, so I didn’t think it would affect us. Buuuuttt I woke up Tuesday morning to no power. . . again! The fire caused enough damage that everything had to be replaced, likely due to an error on NIPSCO’s part. This time around, the number without power in our town jumped to over 2000. NIPSCO worked on it for 2 days, and our power was restored. I didn’t bother with getting ice this time around. I had restocked so little, and I learned that the ice wasn’t really buying us anything but the illusion of doing something.  My sons and my sister, once again, never lost power at all.

Things are starting to get back to normal in most areas, though some residents were without power for 12 to 14 days straight, in the dark and the heat. Within days after the storm, the area had thousands of linemen come from other states to help. Our area was declared a state of emergency which activated the National Guard and FEMA to help with restoration and recovery process. 

Every day it seems like we’re living in an alternate timeline. Add in the stress of rising costs on everything, and when nature piles a disaster on top of that, it’s easy to feel hopeless. But even through all the destruction here, and the frustration of trying to get by without power, there were constant, quiet stories of neighbors helping neighbors, strangers helping strangers, people showing up simply because it mattered. It was a relief to be reminded that the human spirit still prevails. That gives me hope.

“It’s only during a storm that a tree knows how stong it is.” – Matshona Dhilwayo

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Gray Days Aren’t Always Gloomy

Found an old draft of a story I never did anything with. The word prompt was Gloomy. Celebrating my 18 year Anniversary of this blog, and my 58th Birthday with some nostalgia, as this story takes place in the 80s.

“Hey Steffi, it’s time to get up. Uncle John will be here soon to drive the moving van, and Dad wants to get on the road soon. We’ll stop for breakfast before we get to the house.”

I throw the covers over my head as she walks out the door. I lay there for a few minutes longer dreading this day. Since everything is all packed up, I slept on the floor last night. I stretch and look out the window. Great. A gray, gloomy day perfectly matching my mood.

Thank God it’s not a long drive, just a about two hours, so I’ve been told. I have new batteries for my Walkman so that I can listen to music or sleep. I definitely don’t want to have a conversation with my parents and have to hear about how wonderful the new house will be. . .how I’ll meet so many new friends at school . . . what a wonderful opportunity this will be for all of us . . .blah, blah, blah. They have no idea how bad this sucks for me, leaving everything behind. It’s not like I had a ton a friends or was popular, but it’s all I’ve ever known. It’s not easy to make a change you have no control over. I’ll be the new kid for my senior year!

We stop at a little restaurant, breakfast was good. But, seriously, who could mess up pancakes?  As we get back in the car, the parental unit inform me we are about 30 minutes away. They are totally excited, and I’m like oh gag, but maybe that’s because I haven’t even seen the house yet.

I settle in the back seat with my eyes closed, chilling out to some Depeche Mode. Its’ not long before my mom taps me on my knee, prompting me to remove my headphones. “Honey, this is our new town, we are here! Well. . . this is just one part of town, there’s the oil refinery your dad will be working at.” She looks at him beaming with pride.

I rub my eyes, thinking I’m still asleep and having a very bad dream. How is she so happy about this? There is smoke pouring out of stacks of steel. . .there are huge round metal tanks that line the opposite side of street. There is fire! Actual. . . fire. . . in the sky! And what is that smell? Is it possible that the day got even more dreary as we entered into this godforsaken place?

“You’re joking right.  This place. . .we live. . . here.” I can’t even form a coherent sentence.

“Yes Steffi, stop being so dramatic. It’s a nice little town.”

We spend the day unpacking. One good thing about the move, my mom found a job for me. Her friend’s daughter works at the local flower shop and is heading off to college in the fall. She’ll be training me this summer to take her place. I’m excited, it’s a job and it will get me out of the house. She and I met once before but I don’t remember too much about her, so I’m glad when she stops by. My mom greets her with a big hug. “Jenny just look at you all grown up and getting ready to go to college.”

Jen laughs, “Yes, I’m very excited.” She turns to me, “it’s good to see you again, Steffi right?”

I nod my head. “Hey, thanks for the job, I’m really looking forward to it.”

“I think you’ll like it, it’s pretty easy.”

My mom excuses herself, “I’ll let you two girls talk, I have so much to do.”

“Bye Mrs. Landis, my mom says she’ll stop by this weekend.” Jen heads towards the door. “I better get going, I just wanted to stop by and let you know I’ll pick you up for work tomorrow at 11.” She says more quietly, “Oh, and by the way, I go by ‘Jen’ now.” We both laugh as she leaves. “See you tomorrow!”

The rain has finally stopped, so I step outside to take a look around. I just need some time away from my mom and all the unpacking. She is just too cheerful, maybe she’s in denial. We have a decent-sized yard; I walk to the back of the house that is close to what I am told you call an alley. There are stairs that go up to a door. Not sure where that would even lead to in the house. The side of the stairs is a brick wall that has a little ledge at the top. I climb up the stairs and realize I can sit on the ledge. A nice little spot to chill.

I see a guy walking towards me, I don’t think he sees me. He is totally hot, dark hair, tanned skin, athletic build. Oh Shit! He sees me. I try to play it off but can’t, so I give him a little wave.

“Hi! You’re new here, did you just move in?” He’s got this smile

“Yep, first day here in this beautiful oasis.” Spreading my arms out like Vanna White revealing the next prize puzzle.

“Yeah, hardly, you’ll get used to it though. My name is Alex, welcome to the neighborhood.”

“Nice to meet you, Alex. I’m Stephanie, but everyone calls me Steffi.”

Looking at his watch, “uh, sorry, I need to run.  I’m sure I’ll be seeing you around Steph.” He waves and then breaks out into a casual jog.

Like oh my God! The way he called me Steph! He probably knows I am totally checking him out as he disappears down the alley, but I don’t care! Maybe this place isn’t so bad after all.

The next day Jen picks me up and we walk to work.  The job is pretty easy, and the summer turns out to be a lot of fun. Jen and I become fast friends spending a lot of time together outside of work. She introduces me to people I will be going to school with, so I won’t feel like the new kid. I’m really going to miss her when she leaves for college.

Turns out the job has some unexpected perks. On my very first day, Jen and I are trimming flowers for a few arrangements when who walks in? Alex!  “Hey Jen, Hey Steph” he says with a wave as he walks past us to the front counter. Jen elbows me and gives me a look. He picks up an order, and leaves with another wave, and that smile. “Bye Jen, Bye Steph.”

When the door closes behind him. Jen turns to me, “And how do you know Alex?”

Trying so hard not to smile, but failing miserably, “I met him yesterday, he walked past my house, and we had short convo. How well do you know him?”

“All I know is that he is super-hot, and older than both of us. He must be home for the summer. He does live close to you, so that explains him walking past your house. Like I said, he’s older than both of us, I doubt we’ll be hanging out with the same people.”

A girl can dream. I think to myself as I start to clean up.

Jen was right about Alex. We don’t hang out in the same crowd, but he does walk past my house from time to time, and whenever he does, he stops to talk. Our conversations have gotten longer, a few times we’ve ended up in the backyard, just sitting and talking until the lightning bugs came out. It was easy talking to him, comfortable.

Other times while out with Jen and our friends, I’d spot him at one of the town festivals. He’d catch my eye, tap his watch, and smile. He knew my curfew, and that being home didn’t mean the night was over. And right around that time, he’d show up.

When the summer was coming to an end, I didn’t think to ask him about staying in touch once he went back to school, and he never offered. I was crazy to think that he would want to continue whatever this was. Compared to him I was just a kid, why would he want to continue talking to me when he could find an actual woman on his college campus.  

So, we never had a long goodbye or anything. His last visit was just that, his last visit. Yet at the time I had no idea that it was. But looking back I think that was for the best. All I had were good memories and I never forgot about him. Years later, all it took was for me to hear a song on the radio by his favorite band for me to think about him.  I convinced myself that we were just friends, he was like a big brother to me, and that’s what I told anyone when I talked about him. But in my heart, I always wanted more.

I wake up to a gray, gloomy day. It’s my 50th birthday today, and pretty much matches my mood. I don’t expect much anymore for my birthday, over the years it seemed like something negative always happened around my birthday. But I guess that’s pretty normal when you are in a challenging marriage, thank God those days are behind me, and I got out when I did. I make my coffee and grab a muffin. I scroll through social media and read all the birthday wishes. I almost choke on my muffin when I come to the one from Alex – ‘Wishing a very special birthday to a special young lady who I once fancied but never told.’

What the hell? Him and I became friends on social media some years ago, he’s wished me a happy birthday every year since, but that has been about it. I read the post again, I’m shocked, but can’t stop smiling. As I let that greeting sink in, I look out the window and I’m reminded that it was a day just like today when I first met him. It must be a sign! My mind is flooded with so many good memories from that summer.

I type out my response to send as a private message. Letting him know I once fancied him too. My thumb hovers over the send button far too long. I keep reading and re-reading my message before I actually hit send. Because I know once I do this message could very well change the course of my life.

*send*

Gah! What have I just done? My heart is racing but in a good way. I am 50 years old, and I feel like I’m in high school again! After 20 plus years of marriage, I don’t know how to talk to guys!

We spend the rest of the day messaging back and forth, catching up and talking like no time has passed since those summer days in my backyard.

I guess this day isn’t so bad after all. In fact, I think it is my best birthday yet!

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